Awareness of death: a controllable process or a traumatic experience?
Argo Moor

We do not know what comes after death. But as human beings, aware of our mortality, we inevitably relate ourselves to our mortality. One output of such relating includes various beliefs about how the life of a person, his/her death and after-death existence are connected. Different beliefs have different ethical consequences and different impact on life. The beliefs do not have a direct influence, but they presume the actualisation of awareness of death.

This paper shall focus on the conditions of such actualisation and describes the accompanying phenomena. It is shown how, depending on environmental, cultural-ideological and personal qualities, people may become aware of death either in a relatively harmonic way or it may be a traumatic experience.

The concept of awareness of death

Death-related beliefs is one of the best-survived fields of tradition, rich in associations and an interesting source of research as such. The subject of death is among the most widely treated fields in the humanities. There is an enormous and inconceivable amount of tantalogical, psychological, philosophical and religious-historical literature related with death. It can be quite confidently stated that death awareness as a phenomenon in the cultural space of Europe has usually been talked about in connection with a crisis situation (loss of a close person, learning of an incurable disease) or ageing.

The phenomenon of death is also interesting in the context of value regulation, i.e. how and to what extent the beliefs of death do influence our everyday life and choices. The value-regulative influence may be broadly divided into two. One part accounts for specific beliefs about death: whether it is believed that death is the absolute end of the human existence or that death is followed by existence in the otherworld or reincarnation. Different beliefs bring about different ethical consequences. The other part is for death awareness as a phenomenon. A man may believe in the existence of heaven and hell, but in the case of non-actualised awareness of death, its real impact will be relatively modest.

Treatment of death awareness in the value-regulative context inevitably raises the need to treat it also in the framework of people's everyday life.

Death awareness may be situational or abstract. The first can be met in situations where there is actual danger to one's life. Such awareness presumes concrete or situational thinking. In the case of abstract awareness of death one may be aware of mortality, feeling good and safe. Such awareness presumes abstract thinking, which for a long time has been considered typical solely to human beings.

A human is aware of his/her death, but it is difficult to say if this is his/her monopoly or do higher animals possess similar awareness. Modern animal psychology has explained that the difference between humans and animals is smaller than it was believed earlier. Efforts to prove situational ability to think, followed by some elements of abstract thinking (ability to remember, longer reaction time) have produced convincing evidence that at least some higher animals have the ability of abstract thinking (see the film "Dolphin Dilemma" from the Great Book of Nature series). It may presumed that higher animals also possess abstract awareness of death. Whether it is really so, has not been proved yet, but there are numerous documented examples that allow to presume this. The mourning of wolves, but also elephants, dolphins and several species of apes after their loss of a partner is generally known. The documentary "Why Dogs Laugh and Chimanzees Cry" describes how a dog sacrificed itself for a member of the family. On a dusty road the driver did not see a cyclist who had got stuck in the rut. The dog ran barking beside the car and then jumped under the wheels. The car stopped a few metres from the cyclist.

Cognizing the thought of death

But back to people. Abstract awareness of death is divided into the latent and actualised awareness. In the case of the latent awareness of death one is aware that all people die, but there is no direct knowledge of one's mortality. One rarely thinks of death, especially one's own death, because thinking of it is considered useless or even harmful. The thought of death and mortality is accepted in general, but one tries to disregard events that actualise these facts, and if it is not possible, to forget such events. In modern European culture the principled awareness of death is the predominant type and one of its characteristic features is that the fact of mortality does not elicit any emotions. It is just an abstract knowledge that we do not cognise in our daily life.

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